Am likely autistic, and gravitate towards other neurodivergent people. Social awkwardness is not always a negative tbh.What are your standards for women youd date? A lot of men have standards that exclude women with similar social and appearance related issues.I found a lovely person for a committed and hopefully permanent relationship, but I am not everyones cup of tea and that’s ok.Also, they’re probably picking up on the incel stuff. Hearing that a guy feels like hes being personally persecuted by all women is a really scary red flag, and I stay away from men who believe that for safety reasons. Maybe you are not unsafe, but many men with similar ideologies are not safe, and will become aggressive if I misread social cues and do not pick up on romantic interest and respond in the way they want me to.